Comments on: Soft or hard reboot? http://year20reboot.lenski.com/soft-or-hard-reboot/ One marriage, 20 years, and an experiment in cleaning up the bugs and glitches Sun, 02 May 2010 22:25:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Tammy http://year20reboot.lenski.com/soft-or-hard-reboot/#comment-20 Tammy Sun, 14 Mar 2010 14:01:35 +0000 http://theyear20reboot.com/?p=16#comment-20 B - very nice idea! I love it. B – very nice idea! I love it.

]]> By: B http://year20reboot.lenski.com/soft-or-hard-reboot/#comment-19 B Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:57:40 +0000 http://theyear20reboot.com/?p=16#comment-19 A good analogy. What about a "complete system restore" as the final option? That's when you keep all of the important stuff safe (backup), and get rid of all of the extra programs, the deleted entries, and the layer upon layer of junk that has accumulated over the years, by starting over again fresh. Difficult, time consuming, and requires care, but sometimes that's the only way to recover from a complete system failure. Of course, many people think it's not worth while, and start shopping for a new unit. Thus the divorce rate. A good analogy. What about a “complete system restore” as the final option? That’s when you keep all of the important stuff safe (backup), and get rid of all of the extra programs, the deleted entries, and the layer upon layer of junk that has accumulated over the years, by starting over again fresh.

Difficult, time consuming, and requires care, but sometimes that’s the only way to recover from a complete system failure. Of course, many people think it’s not worth while, and start shopping for a new unit. Thus the divorce rate.

]]> By: Tammy http://year20reboot.lenski.com/soft-or-hard-reboot/#comment-16 Tammy Tue, 29 Sep 2009 21:27:25 +0000 http://theyear20reboot.com/?p=16#comment-16 Ali, thanks so much for the words of support and taking the time to share them. Default mode -- good choice of phrase! Ali, thanks so much for the words of support and taking the time to share them. Default mode — good choice of phrase!

]]> By: Tammy http://year20reboot.lenski.com/soft-or-hard-reboot/#comment-15 Tammy Mon, 22 Jun 2009 13:18:56 +0000 http://theyear20reboot.com/?p=16#comment-15 Good morning, Judy. I can see how well the rebooting idea works with re-centering and I suspect that the year-long rebooting experiment will require both R and me to do that very thing at times! Thanks for stopping in my new space. Good morning, Judy. I can see how well the rebooting idea works with re-centering and I suspect that the year-long rebooting experiment will require both R and me to do that very thing at times! Thanks for stopping in my new space.

]]> By: Judy Ringer http://year20reboot.lenski.com/soft-or-hard-reboot/#comment-14 Judy Ringer Mon, 22 Jun 2009 12:53:17 +0000 http://theyear20reboot.com/?p=16#comment-14 Hi Tammy -- I love the reboot concept and look forward to reading further posts on your journey. One of my students talks about rebooting in terms of her ability to re-center herself when she's about to become reactive. I like the idea of rebooting a relationship. Good ki! Hi Tammy — I love the reboot concept and look forward to reading further posts on your journey. One of my students talks about rebooting in terms of her ability to re-center herself when she’s about to become reactive. I like the idea of rebooting a relationship. Good ki!

]]> By: Tammy Lenski http://year20reboot.lenski.com/soft-or-hard-reboot/#comment-18 Tammy Lenski Sun, 21 Jun 2009 23:18:37 +0000 http://theyear20reboot.com/?p=16#comment-18 Lisa, I’m so glad you came by and will be following my journey at the Reboot. 23 years! I have to say that 20 years have gone by in the blink of an eye and I love my guy more every year. <i>This comment was originally posted on <a href="http://conflictzen.com/what-if-you-could-reboot-your-marriage/#comment-8684" title="“What if you could reboot your marriage?”" rel="nofollow">Conflict Zen</a></i> Lisa, I’m so glad you came by and will be following my journey at the Reboot. 23 years! I have to say that 20 years have gone by in the blink of an eye and I love my guy more every year.
This comment was originally posted on Conflict Zen

]]> By: Lisa Gates http://year20reboot.lenski.com/soft-or-hard-reboot/#comment-17 Lisa Gates Sun, 21 Jun 2009 20:56:49 +0000 http://theyear20reboot.com/?p=16#comment-17 Tammy, I’m in! I’m especially in because at 23 years married, we’re got some undergrowth to clear out too. And the other reason…I have a sneaky feeling another book is getting born… <i>This comment was originally posted on <a href="http://conflictzen.com/what-if-you-could-reboot-your-marriage/#comment-8683" title="“What if you could reboot your marriage?”" rel="nofollow">Conflict Zen</a></i> Tammy, I’m in! I’m especially in because at 23 years married, we’re got some undergrowth to clear out too. And the other reason…I have a sneaky feeling another book is getting born…
This comment was originally posted on Conflict Zen

]]> By: Tammy http://year20reboot.lenski.com/soft-or-hard-reboot/#comment-13 Tammy Sun, 21 Jun 2009 01:48:12 +0000 http://theyear20reboot.com/?p=16#comment-13 Ali, thanks so much for the words of support and taking the time to share them. Default mode -- good choice of phrase! Ali, thanks so much for the words of support and taking the time to share them. Default mode — good choice of phrase!

]]> By: Ali http://year20reboot.lenski.com/soft-or-hard-reboot/#comment-12 Ali Sat, 20 Jun 2009 19:49:32 +0000 http://theyear20reboot.com/?p=16#comment-12 I really applaud this initiative and your willingness to take it public. It is so easy to fall into patterns of behavior and to let them become default mode (more computer-speak!). Standing back and asking if this is really what you want for the next twenty years is something most people shy from because of the uncomfortable conversations that have to be gone through to make things different. You have really got me thinking -- thanks! I really applaud this initiative and your willingness to take it public. It is so easy to fall into patterns of behavior and to let them become default mode (more computer-speak!). Standing back and asking if this is really what you want for the next twenty years is something most people shy from because of the uncomfortable conversations that have to be gone through to make things different. You have really got me thinking — thanks!

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